Which gender is most surprised by infidelity? Men or women? To be fair, we all have certain blind spots, but infidelity is in a category of its own. No one wants to be caught unawares: a double entendre of sorts. Hubby at home doesn’t want to be blindsided by his beloved’s indiscretions, nor does his beloved want […]
This is the main question I asked in a survey I conducted online and sent to my various social media sites. The answers available were: Yes, No, Not Sure. The other questions asked were: If so, why do you think infidelity is becoming normalized? Why do you think infidelity is not becoming normalized? Why are you unsure? […]
We hear so much about infidelity, but age-wise, who’s getting hit the hardest? Is there a certain generation that experiences betrayal more, or less? I receive Google Alerts regarding infidelity. The age range seems to run the gamut, however, I wanted to know what this looks like from a professional therapist’s point of view. So, I referred […]
I read an article that asked: Why is there gay conversion in the church, but not adultery conversion? For the record, I’m not a proponent of gay conversion. However, the author of the article, Abydenus, brings up a valid point. (Full article here: http://bit.ly/2mF3msz ). Even better: How about a side of aversion to go with your […]
I wondered this same question: indeed, why do people in seemingly happy alliances have the need to go outside for some extracurricular activity? I’ve personally been approached with this question several times, and frankly, I didn’t have an answer. Luckily, I do have Cathy Chambliss as my go-to therapist for all puzzling relationship related questions. Many have asked: […]
Today is President’s Day. Specifically, it’s a day meant to acknowledge George Washington’s birthday; it now honors and encompasses all presidents and their terms. Some of these men, however, did not honor the terms of their marriage. Even the highest office one can uphold in the United States has been affected by infidelity; several times over. It’s an […]
You might think thee day of love, flowers, and chocolates would encourage more warmth, affection and, well, love–umm…maybe not. There’s also the day before, and after, Cupid’s merry making. It seems Valentine’s Eve is a very busy day for those juggling a wife and a romantic bit on the side. Since you haven’t yet mastered […]
I’ve passed along info before re: infidelity and technology; perhaps the reason I continue to cover this topic is because it’s so widespread. Hopefully a word will be read, or an impression will be made, to help curb the incidences. I’ve not asked our resident LMFT, Cathy Chambliss, whether she’s experienced an upsurge in clients due to this issue. […]
It’s a well known fact, or so statistics claim, that infidelity during the holidays is common. Buying presents and trying to keep up with the Jones’ can create stress; office parties with alcohol flowing and flirtations growing, foster reckless behavior; resentments that build during the year may culminate with acting out; and all the feel […]
I realize that limiting top reasons for cheating to three is simplistic (unfortunately, there are a multitude!), but I thought it would be easier to digest and perhaps make a reasonable impression–I can only hope. As a licensed Marriage and Family therapist, Cathy sees infidelity in many forms. Here’s the bite-sized version of my inquiry. I […]